Believe in You

I was meeting with job seekers at a speed-coaching event in New York when a journalist approached to ask questions. She interviewed my coachee for several minutes. Then she turned to me and asked: "What's the number one nugget of advice that you give to people who have lost their jobs?"

I answered: "You have to believe in yourself."

Job loss can exact a serious emotional toll on a person. The sting can last a long time.

If you are not careful, it can affect your self-image and your outlook...and get in the way of finding your next job.

The question a job seeker must address is:  How do I turn this crisis of job loss into an opportunity?

Over the course of my career as a career transition consultant, coaching many job seekers and career changers, I have offered these tips:

Galvanize into action - "Galvanize" was a word my mother used to tell us kids to "get going." In a job hunt, you cannot sit around waiting for something to happen. You have to make things happen!

Build a team - Do not attempt a job search all by yourself. You need the input and support of others. A small team can provide you with information, ideas, suggestions, and encouragement.

Make a plan - Many flail around when they find themselves in a job search. It's much better to set a goal and know what you want. Create a routine too.

The effect of being downsized is like being told "You are of no worth to us any more." That hurts. Especially if you were a person who gave your heart and soul to your job.  

Now that you are taking charge of your career, make sure that you pour your heart and soul into what matters most!